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Should we (or should we not) get married?

Genesis 2:18 And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. (KJV)

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1 Corinthians 7:8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. (KJV)

Answer:

Notice when God makes His statement in Genesis, He is referring to Adam specifically. However, it may not mean that everyone is better in a relationship. God's plan of reproduction of the human race could not sustain itself if Adam had no helper. Because of population growth, the development of future generations does not depend upon any one person today. For some people and for other reasons, it may be better for them to remain unmarried. It certainly freed Paul to pursue a different ministry than he would have if he were married... Regardless of whether marriage is for you, we still must remain obedient to Jesus and His Word. But this however, is no contradiction...